Do you want the woman in your life to crave sexual intercourse with you? Then learn how to become a master at performing cunnilingus and you’ll have her coming back for more time and time again. Here are a few tips designed to help you unlock the sexual beast in the woman in your life.

Before you get started
When cunnilingus is done correctly it has the potential to give women mind blowing orgasms. Many women prefer it over intercourse; however there are a couple of things to keep in mind before you dive in head first.

1. Set the mood. There is no on and off switch on a woman’s body and before she can fully enjoy sex she needs to be prepped. Take the time to seduce your woman; romance her.

2. Groom your face. Chin stubble is painful and while that can be a stimulate it can also cause rashes and skin irritation. Shave your face and make it smooth. Consider showering together for added foreplay.

3. Know This! There are more nerve endings in the clitoris than there is in the penis so be careful to be gentle with it unless she tells you otherwise.

Techniques.
There are as many techniques out there as there are people performing them but sometimes the basics are best.

1. Forget your alphabet. We’ve all heard about the alphabet technique but I’m telling you to forget it. It doesn’t work on every woman and your tongue will get tired trying to move that way for any great lengths of time. Instead of trying to make your tongue into a spellchecker, move your tongue and mouth in different directions until you find the one that causes the most reaction in your woman.

2. Avoid the clitoris. Many men head straight for it thinking it’s a sure fire way to get us off. It isn’t. Try purposely avoiding the clitoris until she’s begging you to pay attention to it. Spend time devouring her whole body and before you know it she’ll want you to be down there as much as you want to be down there.

3. You have more to your face than just your tongue. Carl’s Jr. once had the slogan, “If it doesn’t get all over the place it doesn’t belong in your face.” This is true of cunnilingus. Get your whole face in there. What you do with your chin and nose is every bit as important as what you do with your tongue. The idea IS to get it all over the place…and your face.

4. Relax your tongue. A hard jabbing tongue can be uncomfortable as many women’s clitoris is too sensitive to undergo that kind of torture. A soft, flabby tongue does the best work.

5. Women like getting head too. It has been scientifically proven that a women’s clitoris has more nerve endings than a penis so the same time of “suction” that excites a man, excites a woman’s clit. Purse your lips so that it appears you are saying oh and then gently draw the clitoris into that oh and suck. Create a vacuum with your lips and she’ll have you by the ears, I guarantee it.

6. Don’t stop. Once you find that particular spot that has your woman squealing and thrashing around…don’t stop! Her reactions to what you are doing should clue you in to the fact that she likes exactly what you are doing and that doing anything else is only going to prolong her orgasm. How would you feel if you were about to explode and she suddenly stopped doing what she was doing to you? Frustrated? Then don’t do it to her. Continue doing what you were doing until she tells you to.

7. Add some flavor. Some men don’t care for the taste and that’s okay. You can add a little flavor by incorporating popsicles, flavored lubricants or other food items to your love making session. Ask your women to eat a lot of pineapple. Certain fruits affect the flavor of bodily fluids. Smoking most certainly affects this.

Communication is the key
Whether you are new to cunnilingus or an old pro you won’t get anywhere unless you listen and communicate with your partner. Let go of your inhibitions, relax and have fun with it. Let her tell you what she likes and doesn’t like and pay attention to what she tells you.

Don’t be too hard on yourself if you can’t find just the right spot the first time around. Part of the fun is getting to do it over and over again. A woman’s vagina can be a mysterious place and the only way you are going to get familiar with it is to explore it.

Women, be gentle with your man’s ego. You crush that and you can forget ever having his tongue please you again because he won’t be sure he won’t be embarrassed if he tries. Let him have his dignity even if he doesn’t do a great job. Just like you had to learn how to please his penis, he has to learn how to please your vagina.

Whether you eat at the Y regularly or just visit from time to time, enjoy it, enjoy your partner and have a happy, healthy sexual relationship. Merry munching.

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